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Discover the gas mask in BDSM
Discover the gas mask in BDSM. Masks are widely used in BDSM. But there are masks, there are intense masks, and then there’s the gas mask. I have to…
3 May 2026
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…
3 May 2026
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare?
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …
3 May 2026
What does hentai mean?
What does hentai mean? Hentai refers to a genre of pornographic or erotic manga and anime from Japan. The term literally means “perversion” or…
3 May 2026
Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct?
Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct? Hermaphrodite is an outdated (and, when applied to humans, offensive) term for intersex. A…
3 May 2026
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress?
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress? I regularly (read: daily) receive messages from subs and slaves looking to get in touch. They’re…
29 April 2026
The History of High Heels!
The History of High Heels! Wearing high heels seems almost inextricably linked to BDSM. We see both slaves and Mistresses wearing the most beautiful…
29 April 2026
Humor with the Humbler
Humor with the Humbler. The humbler is one of those toys that always tickles my funny bone. When I see a slave or sub walking around with it, looking…
29 April 2026
The ability to improvise!
The ability to improvise! Those who have regularly read my blogs or books, or who have attended one of my workshops, know that I believe it’s…
29 April 2026
BDSM and Pregnancy
BDSM and Pregnancy. This blog post begins with a message I received on WhatsApp from a good (masochistic) friend. She’s asking this on behalf of “a…
29 April 2026