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Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first!
Muscular Eros turns out to be flabby Achmed. Personal responsibility first! Recently, there was a court case in Belgium involving a 46-year-old woman…
19 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free?
Why pay for BDSM when you can get it for free? The question makes sense: why would you pay for something you could, in theory, experience without…
13 May 2026
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist
The major risks associated with AIDS still exist Okay, this isn’t the most frivolous or exciting topic to write or read about, but it is an important…
12 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: The Tension Between Seeing and Being Seen
Exhibitionism and voyeurism take the concept of seeing and being seen to the next level. The terms are often mentioned in the same breath, but they…
11 May 2026
The erosion and destruction of BDSM
The erosion and destruction of BDSM. But fortunately, we alone are responsible for letting the sun shine in our lives… For me, BDSM—and Femdom in…
11 May 2026
Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps
Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps. You don’t make some things because you have to. Some things come about because you’re missing…
9 May 2026
True inclusivity isn’t about inventing new labels, but about making labels unnecessary
True inclusivity isn’t about inventing new labels, but about making labels unnecessary. I am writing this as a “white cis woman,” as they say these…
6 May 2026
A great warm-up whip: the flogger!
A great warm-up whip: the flogger! The very first whip I ever bought was a small flogger. I thought I’d start off nice and soft, but in hindsight…
4 May 2026