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How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good?

How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good? If you open up Google or social media, you’ll be flooded with women who call themselves…

Chain flogger. This chain whip is not the same as the tool used by a bicycle mechanic to remove the cassette (rear sprockets) from a bicycle. By…

An appointment with a Mistress: how do you prepare? Exciting - you have an appointment with a Mistress. Whether it’s paid or unpaid, that shouldn’t…

“Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive? Today I stumbled upon another gem on Facebook. It’s the same old question: “Why is a visit to a Mistress…

The history of shibari. Who hasn’t seen those beautiful, inspiring photos of intricate bondage? Often, what you’re looking at is shibari bondage…

Which gag or mouth gag do you prefer? It can sometimes be useful to silence your sub. Of course, you can do this by covering their mouth with your…

What is a Judas chair, and what was it used for? Actually, a Judas chair has nothing to do with BDSM, but you might come across the term someday. If…

Look at me. Soms zit de grootste pijn niet in wat we zijn, maar in wat we niet mogen zijn. In delen van onszelf die geen ruimte krijgen, omdat ze…

The symbolism behind the BDSM logo. If you’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a while, you’re probably familiar with the BDSM logo. The first time I…

The Psychological Effect of Kneeling. One of the most well-known poses in BDSM is perhaps the sub kneeling before their Dominant. Of course, it’s up…