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You long for surrender, but you're not submissive at all
You long for submission, but you don't feel submissive. Discover why those feelings aren't contradictory and how BDSM offers a space for you to be…
21 October 2026
Why the Moriah App Is Especially Interesting for Couples: Growing Together in BDSM, 365 Days a Year
Samen groeien in BDSM? Ontdek de D/s Way van de Moriah App: 365 dagen opdrachten, kennis, inspiratie en verdieping voor koppels.
20 October 2026
Unique: Mistress Moriah's digital Slave Training
Slave Training. A year of daily coaching in submission. For single subs and couples. Discreet, with assignments, an exam, and a diploma.
17 October 2026
Why are there so many BDSM safety models?
Why are there so many BDSM safety models? Anyone who delves into BDSM will sooner or later come across a whole range of terms that all seem to say…
14 September 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026
What does Algolagnia mean?
“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…
15 May 2026
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM
Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…
11 May 2026
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo. If you’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a while, you’re probably familiar with the BDSM logo. The first time I…
14 April 2026
The Power of Powerlessness
The Power of Powerlessness.“ The foundation of BDSM lies in the balance between power and powerlessness. That powerlessness can be experienced in all…
8 April 2026
What is Masochism?
What is Masochism? We previously discussed the concept of sadism on this site, so naturally the concept of masochism cannot be left out. Both are…
7 April 2026