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Psychological

The Beauty of Raw Reality

“The Beauty of Raw Reality” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. There are people who see coaching as a place where you are validated…

16 July 2026
Psychological

What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty

What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty. It’s a question I hear often. What do you do if your partner isn’t into…

8 July 2026
Safety & hygiene

The Impact of Medication on BDSM

The Impact of Medication on BDSM. One topic within BDSM often remains strikingly underdiscussed: medication. That’s a shame, because many people take…

29 June 2026
Blog

Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation!

Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation! If you enjoy our content and read our posts regularly, please give us…

27 June 2026
Relations

A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously

A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously. For the past few years, I’ve been regularly leading BDSM workshops for couples, as well…

25 June 2026
Book corner

Twelve years later… there’s Lalaland

“Twelve Years Later… There Is Lalaland”. Sometimes you look back and realize that twelve years doesn’t actually sound that long—until you realize how…

9 June 2026
Terms

What is the difference between a sub and a slave?

What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…

1 June 2026
Blog

My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo

My tarot reading by Tattoo Bayo. Since I’ve been facing quite a bit of headwind in various areas lately, I realized I needed something I don’t…

26 May 2026
Starting BDSM

True BDSM is always about reciprocity

True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…

19 May 2026
Safety & hygiene

What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful?

What are aphrodisiacs? And are they harmful? Have you ever heard of aphrodisiacs? It sounds like something exotic from a fairy tale, but it’s…

19 May 2026