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Chain flogger. This chain whip is not the same as the tool used by a bicycle mechanic to remove the cassette (rear sprockets) from a bicycle. By…

“Why is a visit to a Mistress so expensive? Today I stumbled upon another gem on Facebook. It’s the same old question: “Why is a visit to a Mistress…

The history of shibari. Who hasn’t seen those beautiful, inspiring photos of intricate bondage? Often, what you’re looking at is shibari bondage…

Inserting a catheter. As part of medical play, one may choose to insert a catheter. It is somewhat similar to sounding, but instead of using sounds…

The symbolism behind the BDSM logo. If you’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a while, you’re probably familiar with the BDSM logo. The first time I…

The Impact of Tickling: Laughter Is Good for You! I can often throw even the most hardcore masochist off balance simply by tickling them. Gently…

The Psychological Effect of Kneeling. One of the most well-known poses in BDSM is perhaps the sub kneeling before their Dominant. Of course, it’s up…

Clips, an inexpensive fastener for (almost) any part of the body. The ordinary clothespin can play a prominent role in BDSM play. It’s an inexpensive

Set your boundaries, because trying to please everyone can make you sick. It is a human trait to want to please “the other person.” This is mainly…

What is chastity? And just how exciting can it be? Chastity refers to the virtue of abstaining from sexual acts outside the context of marriage…