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What does hentai mean?
What does hentai mean? Hentai refers to a genre of pornographic or erotic manga and anime from Japan. The term literally means “perversion” or…
3 May 2026
Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct?
Intersex or hermaphrodite. Which term is correct? Hermaphrodite is an outdated (and, when applied to humans, offensive) term for intersex. A…
3 May 2026
The silence of your being
The silence of your being
3 May 2026
The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage
The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage. When you think of bondage, you might immediately think of rope or, perhaps secondarily, leather…
3 May 2026
Humor with the Humbler
Humor with the Humbler. The humbler is one of those toys that always tickles my funny bone. When I see a slave or sub walking around with it, looking…
29 April 2026
The ability to improvise!
The ability to improvise! Those who have regularly read my blogs or books, or who have attended one of my workshops, know that I believe it’s…
29 April 2026
BDSM and Pregnancy
BDSM and Pregnancy. This blog post begins with a message I received on WhatsApp from a good (masochistic) friend. She’s asking this on behalf of “a…
29 April 2026
What is infantilism, and is it related to pedophilia?
What is infantilism, and is it related to pedophilia? Infantilism is the experience of pleasurable sensations by behaving like a child and then being…
29 April 2026
Temperature Play: The Game of Heat and Cold
Temperature Play: The Game of Heat and Cold. Temperature play is an intense sensory game in which you play with heat and cold. It can be so intense…
29 April 2026
How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good?
How can you tell if a professional dominatrix is any good? If you open up Google or social media, you’ll be flooded with women who call themselves…
24 April 2026