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The sense of security at Ageplay

The sense of security at Ageplay. Ageplay is also a sensitive topic within the BDSM scene (completely unjustifiably). For some, it rubs too closely…

Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…

We’ve previously discussed the term TPE (Total Power Exchange), but there’s also EPE, which stands for Erotic Power Exchange. This is sometimes also…

Exhibitionism and voyeurism take the concept of seeing and being seen to the next level. The terms are often mentioned in the same breath, but they…

Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose. Facesitting (smothering), also known as queening or kinging, is a combination of…

Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps. You don’t make some things because you have to. Some things come about because you’re missing…

True inclusivity isn’t about inventing new labels, but about making labels unnecessary. I am writing this as a “white cis woman,” as they say these…

The most important ins and outs of fisting. You’ve probably heard the terms “fisting,” “fistfucking,” or “fist-fucking” before. It’s a sexual act in…

What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…

Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …