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Whips

Sweet surprises, for a change

Sweet surprises, for a change.

8 April 2026
Bondage

The Power of Powerlessness

The Power of Powerlessness.“ The foundation of BDSM lies in the balance between power and powerlessness. That powerlessness can be experienced in all…

8 April 2026
Relations

What is primal play?

What is primal play? I’m curious - not so much that I secretly open my sweetheart’s mail or scroll through his phone (though I certainly do that…

7 April 2026
Starting BDSM

What is Masochism?

What is Masochism? We previously discussed the concept of sadism on this site, so naturally the concept of masochism cannot be left out. Both are…

7 April 2026
Starting BDSM

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there?

What is a fetish, and what kinds are there? A fetish is a form of sexual attraction or desire that focuses on a specific object, body part, or…

7 April 2026
Sexuality

Masturbation

Masturbation. Masturbation is another word for self-gratification and refers to stimulating one’s own genitals to achieve sexual arousal, until one…

7 April 2026
Humiliation

Human furniture

Human furniture. You can use a sub to pamper yourself, to serve you, to clean your house, to satisfy your sexual desires, or to fully indulge your…

7 April 2026
Cuckolding

The chastity belt - which one will you choose?

The chastity belt - which one will you choose? CB is a common abbreviation for a chastity belt, or penis cage for men; it stands for “Chastity…

7 April 2026
Dungeon & products

The use of hooks in BDSM

The use of hooks in BDSM. Chains and hooks are widely used in BDSM, primarily to securely restrain the sub or as a tool in bondage. There are all…

6 April 2026
Starting BDSM

What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?

What is the difference between BDSM and self-harm?

2 April 2026