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What do the letters SM stand for?
What do the letters SM stand for? The letters SM in the acronym BDSM stand for Sadism and Masochism. The Sadist derives pleasure from inflicting…
26 March 2026
What is a speculum?
What is a speculum? For many women who have ever visited a gynecologist or had an internal examination by a general practitioner, this is a familiar…
25 March 2026
Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging?
Strap-on or strap-on dildo. And what is pegging? A common fantasy - both within and outside of BDSM - among men is to be “taken” by a woman.
25 March 2026
Corporal punishment, or a spanking
Corporal punishment, or a spanking.“Spanking” doesn’t really translate well, but if you had to come up with something, “a spanking” comes closest.
25 March 2026
In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave)
In the mind of the sub or submissive (slave). To connect with one another during a session or experience, it’s important to understand what’s going…
25 March 2026
The possibilities of nipple torture
The possibilities of nipple torture. What is meant by nipple torture is undoubtedly clear to everyone the torture or torment of the nipples. It is…
25 March 2026
Different types of nipple clamps - which one will you choose?
Different types of nipple clamps - which one will you choose? The term “nipple clamps” pretty much says it all—they’re perfectly suited for the…
25 March 2026
What exactly is a switch?
What exactly is a switch? In addition to the specific roles in BDSM such as dominant and submissive, there is also the role of the switch (also known…
24 March 2026
What does the role of the dominant partner look like?
What does the role of the dominant partner look like? The dominant is the counterpart to the submissive. Other terms used include: top (English…
24 March 2026
What does “swinging” mean?
What does “swinging” mean? Swinger culture is not strictly part of BDSM, but you’re likely to come across the term here and there, so here’s a brief…
24 March 2026