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Fetish & kinks

What is trampling, and how safe is it?

What is trampling, and how safe is it? When it comes to humiliation, I mostly walk all over my sub mentally, but doing it physically is just as much…

21 March 2026
Electro

What is a violet wand or neon wand?

What is a violet wand or neon wand? The violet wand is part of electric play. It is a popular device because it is easy to use. It delivers electrical

21 March 2026
Fetish & kinks

What does it mean to have a foot fetish (foot worship)?

What does it mean to have a foot fetish (foot worship)? As a Pro Dom, I’ve encountered foot fetishism (also known as podophilia) often enough. Some…

21 March 2026
Watersport

Water sports or sex in the lake - is it harmful?

Water sports or sex in the lake - is it harmful? Watersports or golden showers are other terms for wet sex. It is an umbrella term for everything…

21 March 2026
Dungeon & products

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel. Maybe you remember the eraser wheel in your mother’s or grandmother’s sewing box? She used it…

21 March 2026
Terms

What is a zipper in BDSM?

What is a zipper in BDSM? Of course, you’re familiar with the word “zipper,” but in BDSM, it has a slightly different meaning than that thing

21 March 2026
Whips

Whips: Enjoy the beautiful sound of a whip

Whips: Enjoy the beautiful sound of a whip. How a whip or other striking implement is experienced depends on the hand wielding it, how it is received…

21 March 2026
Starting BDSM

24/7 - What does 24/7 mean?

24/7 - What does 24/7 mean? BDSM is a blueprint for your relationship and will therefore vary from person to person and from couple to couple.

21 March 2026
Fetish & kinks

PVC fetish – What exactly is it?

PVC fetish – What exactly is it? You’ve probably heard of a latex fetish at some point, or perhaps the even more well-known leather fetish.

19 March 2026
Watersport

Golden shower

Golden shower. If you’ve been involved in BDSM for a while, you’ve probably heard the term “Golden Shower” before. Golden Shower is a form of golden…

15 March 2026