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A great warm-up whip: the flogger!
A great warm-up whip: the flogger! The very first whip I ever bought was a small flogger. I thought I’d start off nice and soft, but in hindsight…
4 May 2026
Discover the gas mask in BDSM
Discover the gas mask in BDSM. Masks are widely used in BDSM. But there are masks, there are intense masks, and then there’s the gas mask. I have to…
3 May 2026
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…
3 May 2026
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare?
Pubic area: shaved, trimmed, or bare? In the BDSM community, a lot of shaving goes on. Some people enjoy shaving completely - from head to toe …
3 May 2026
The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage
The intense sensation of plastic wrap bondage. When you think of bondage, you might immediately think of rope or, perhaps secondarily, leather…
3 May 2026
How exactly do you tie a hogtie?
How exactly do you tie a hogtie? A “hogtie” is a technique used in rope bondage in which a person’s hands and feet are tied together behind their…
29 April 2026
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress?
What is the proper way to approach a Mistress? I regularly (read: daily) receive messages from subs and slaves looking to get in touch. They’re…
29 April 2026
The History of High Heels!
The History of High Heels! Wearing high heels seems almost inextricably linked to BDSM. We see both slaves and Mistresses wearing the most beautiful…
29 April 2026
Humor with the Humbler
Humor with the Humbler. The humbler is one of those toys that always tickles my funny bone. When I see a slave or sub walking around with it, looking…
29 April 2026
What is a Karwats?
What is a Karwats? A Karwats? A karwats is a type of whip with a short handle and a long, flexible strap or cord. It is traditionally used for…
29 April 2026