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Starting BDSM

What does Algolagnia mean?

“What does Algolagnia mean?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. The term Algolangia is not one you come across every day. It almost…

15 May 2026
Safety & hygiene

The major risks associated with AIDS still exist

The major risks associated with AIDS still exist Okay, this isn’t the most frivolous or exciting topic to write or read about, but it is an important…

12 May 2026
Ageplay

The sense of security at Ageplay

The sense of security at Ageplay. Ageplay is also a sensitive topic within the BDSM scene (completely unjustifiably). For some, it rubs too closely…

12 May 2026
Starting BDSM

Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM

Beautiful, intense, and loving BDSM. Sometimes life is full of contradictions. I recently posted the blog “The Erosion and Destruction of BDSM,” but…

11 May 2026
Impact play

Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation

Abrasion or Arasion, a sanded sensation. Have you ever heard of the term abrasion or arasion? I rarely come across the term myself. In fact, in all…

11 May 2026
Relations

Erotic Power Exchange of EPE

We’ve previously discussed the term TPE (Total Power Exchange), but there’s also EPE, which stands for Erotic Power Exchange. This is sometimes also…

11 May 2026
Fetish & kinks

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism: The Tension Between Seeing and Being Seen

Exhibitionism and voyeurism take the concept of seeing and being seen to the next level. The terms are often mentioned in the same breath, but they…

11 May 2026
Femdom

Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose

Face-sitting, with your butt right on the tip of his nose. Facesitting (smothering), also known as queening or kinging, is a combination of…

11 May 2026
Dungeon & products

Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps

Handmade nipple jewelry; more than just clamps. You don’t make some things because you have to. Some things come about because you’re missing…

9 May 2026
Anal play

The most important ins and outs of fisting

The most important ins and outs of fisting. You’ve probably heard the terms “fisting,” “fistfucking,” or “fist-fucking” before. It’s a sexual act in…

4 May 2026