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Why are there so many BDSM safety models?
Why are there so many BDSM safety models? Anyone who delves into BDSM will sooner or later come across a whole range of terms that all seem to say…
14 September 2026
Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we all want the same thing?
“Why do we fight each other when, in the end, we want the same thing?” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. Sometimes I genuinely wonder…
8 September 2026
Is This All? – An Ode to the Tireless Masochist Is this all?
“Is This All? – An Ode to the Tireless Masochist” was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. Some subs have had enough after a few hard…
2 September 2026
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty
What if your partner isn't into kinky stuff? On desire, longing, and honesty. It’s a question I hear often. What do you do if your partner isn’t into…
8 July 2026
Stitching: What Is It, Anyway?
Stitching: What Is It, Anyway? Stitching is a form of medical play in which the skin is superficially sutured, without medical necessity and without…
4 July 2026
The Impact of Medication on BDSM
The Impact of Medication on BDSM. One topic within BDSM often remains strikingly underdiscussed: medication. That’s a shame, because many people take…
29 June 2026
Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation!
Support us! You can help support BDSMforyou financially by making a donation! If you enjoy our content and read our posts regularly, please give us…
27 June 2026
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously
A serious professional dominatrix takes her craft seriously. For the past few years, I’ve been regularly leading BDSM workshops for couples, as well…
25 June 2026
What is the difference between a sub and a slave?
What is the difference between a sub and a slave? Within BDSM, people often talk about subs and slaves, but what exactly is the difference? The terms…
1 June 2026
True BDSM is always about reciprocity
True BDSM is always about reciprocity. In a BDSM experience, there is usually a submissive and a dominant, or more broadly speaking, a giver and a…
19 May 2026