BDSM
The erosion and destruction of BDSM
The erosion and destruction of BDSM. But fortunately, we alone are responsible for letting the sun shine in our lives… For me, BDSM—and Femdom in…
11 May 2026
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls?
What is the purpose of Geisha love balls? Geisha love balls are small (metal) balls, also known as ben-wa balls, love balls, or pleasure balls. The…
3 May 2026
What does hentai mean?
What does hentai mean? Hentai refers to a genre of pornographic or erotic manga and anime from Japan. The term literally means “perversion” or…
3 May 2026
BDSM and Pregnancy
BDSM and Pregnancy. This blog post begins with a message I received on WhatsApp from a good (masochistic) friend. She’s asking this on behalf of “a…
29 April 2026
Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control
Hypoxophilia, breath holding, or breath control. Breath control is not a harmless game. It is also known by the names hypoxiphilia, breath reduction…
20 April 2026
What is infibulation, and is it harmful?
Infibulation is the sealing of the vagina or penis to make sexual intercourse impossible. This can be done in all sorts of ways; the most obvious is…
20 April 2026
Look at me
Look at me. Soms zit de grootste pijn niet in wat we zijn, maar in wat we niet mogen zijn. In delen van onszelf die geen ruimte krijgen, omdat ze…
18 April 2026
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo
The symbolism behind the BDSM logo. If you’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a while, you’re probably familiar with the BDSM logo. The first time I…
14 April 2026
The Power of Powerlessness
The Power of Powerlessness.“ The foundation of BDSM lies in the balance between power and powerlessness. That powerlessness can be experienced in all…
8 April 2026
When role-playing, how realistic should you make it?
When role-playing, how realistic should you make it?
28 March 2026