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Terms

What is vanilla or vanilla sex?

What is vanilla or vanilla sex? You may have come across the term “vanilla” before. Vanilla or vanilla sex simply means conventional sex. In other…

22 March 2026
Starting BDSM

Humiliation, an intense experience of mental pain

Humiliation, an intense experience of mental pain. Humiliation plays a significant role in BDSM, especially for Femdom slaves. Keep in mind, however…

22 March 2026
Fetish & kinks

What is trampling, and how safe is it?

What is trampling, and how safe is it? When it comes to humiliation, I mostly walk all over my sub mentally, but doing it physically is just as much…

21 March 2026
Electro

What is a violet wand or neon wand?

What is a violet wand or neon wand? The violet wand is part of electric play. It is a popular device because it is easy to use. It delivers electrical

21 March 2026
Fetish & kinks

What does it mean to have a foot fetish (foot worship)?

What does it mean to have a foot fetish (foot worship)? As a Pro Dom, I’ve encountered foot fetishism (also known as podophilia) often enough. Some…

21 March 2026
Watersport

Water sports or sex in the lake - is it harmful?

Water sports or sex in the lake - is it harmful? Watersports or golden showers are other terms for wet sex. It is an umbrella term for everything…

21 March 2026
Dungeon & products

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel

Wheel of pain, pinwheel, or just a small eraser wheel. Maybe you remember the eraser wheel in your mother’s or grandmother’s sewing box? She used it…

21 March 2026
Terms

What is a zipper in BDSM?

What is a zipper in BDSM? Of course, you’re familiar with the word “zipper,” but in BDSM, it has a slightly different meaning than that thing

21 March 2026
Whips

Whips: Enjoy the beautiful sound of a whip

Whips: Enjoy the beautiful sound of a whip. How a whip or other striking implement is experienced depends on the hand wielding it, how it is received…

21 March 2026
Starting BDSM

What is BDSM?

What is BDSM? BDSM is an incredibly broad concept. But what exactly is BDSM? That’s actually quite difficult to explain. Yes, it’s an acronym for…

19 March 2026