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Mrs Moriah

The Temptation of the Last Word

In this in-depth article about the desire for the last word, we connect the insights from Mattias Desmet's The Psychology of Totalitarianism with BDSM

19 June 2025

The inequality within our equality

What does true equality between men and women mean? A personal, critical look from a Femdom perspective.

18 June 2025

Automatic vagina and breast pump

Automatic vagina and breast pump. Some people have the impression that BDSM is all about (mental or physical) pain, and of course that's nonsense.

18 June 2025

Forced intox: Why this limit should never be crossed

What is forced intox, where does the desire come from and why is it irresponsible to put it into practice? Read why this limit doesn't belong in play

17 June 2025

The scent of surrender – on the experience of scent within BDSM

Scent in BDSM: from sweat to incense, scent influences atmosphere, surrender and memory. Discover how scent can enhance a deeply sensory play.

13 June 2025

Dominance versus vulnerability - not opposites, but partners

Discover why showing vulnerability as a Dom is not a sign of weakness, but of strength. Read how vulnerability deepens and strengthens your BDSM…

12 June 2025

Metal Penis Plug with Ridges

Metal penis plug with ridges. If you're crazy about sounding, then you can no doubt appreciate a penis plug too. Penis plugs come in all kinds of…

11 June 2025

Edging and edgeplay: two terms, one confusion

Discover the difference between edging and edgeplay in the BDSM world. Learn about their applications, risks and the importance of communication and…

10 June 2025

A loving shout-out to my private piggies

A loving shout-out to my private piggies. On loyalty, reciprocity and what it really means to be allowed to be a sub.

9 June 2025

Review: (S)Experimenteren

"Review: (S)Experimenteren" was written for BDSMforyou.nl by Mistress Moriah. When I start the book (S)Experimenteren just before going to sleep, the…

7 June 2025